Civility

Definition

Civility is a moral virtue — treating others with dignity, respect, and seriousness — even in disagreement. It is deeper than politeness and essential to democratic life.

Why it matters

Democracy depends on a willingness to hear and engage with different perspectives. Civility does not require agreement or mere politeness; it requires respect for others as equal participants in public life.

Civility helps prevent both hostility and the suppression of necessary critique. Healthy democratic discourse requires courage, patience and a willingness to engage difficult ideas without dehumanizing others.

A male and female standing side-by-side with arms outstretched.

Classroom Activities

Dialogue Circles

Students participate in a facilitated circle process designed to co-create norms and discuss difficult issues in a structured, equitable format.

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Resources

Complicating the Narratives

What if journalists covered controversial issues differently — based on how humans actually behave when they are polarized and suspicious?

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Bridging Differences Playbook

A research-informed guide offering practical tools for bridging divides at intrapersonal, interpersonal and intergroup levels.

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How to Lead a Conversation Between People Who Disagree

In a world deeply divided, how do we have hard conversations with nuance, curiosity, respect?

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